Wednesday, June 8, 2011

A little unusual...

I don't typically use this blog to post messages to people. Rarely if ever, in fact. Right now, I'm going to. To you whom it's directed, you know who you are, and I ask nothing more than that you follow the link and read what it says. To everyone else, feel free to read or not.

First, no, I haven't forgotten you.

Second, no, I don't hate you.

Third, yes, I still worry about you.

Fourth, you may agree and be scared to do anything for a variety of reasons, or you may disagree, but... http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm There's a "wheel" partway down, and one half of it applies, which is frightening: Guilt & Coercion; Intimidation & Threats; Isolation; and Minimizing, Denying, & Blaming. And you know I'll never say it again if you ask me not to; but he's done exactly nothing to change my mind over these fears.

Any time you want or need to speak to me, nothing has changed. You may not see the comments in what you said that terrify me, but at least one sentence in there sent a shiver down my spine. Be safe.

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